Being pushed

Women want a man who will be strong when bad things happen so they'll push you to see how much you can stand and just to see how far you'll go for them. (If you go against a core principle to do what they want, the relationship will die or at least turn varying shades of ugly). They want a man they can respect first, but a distant second is a man that will do what they want if they yell loud enough.

But being tested capriciously just makes me lose respect for whoever I'm with.